18 julho 2014

Virginity and marriage. A word youth!

I want to leave my testimony about my view of marriage and virginity in these our times schizophrenics. I do not think everyone will agree, but I think what I experienced can be a means for youth.
I was born in a house where my mother was Christian and my father liked to beat the drum, (after his split my father became the father of saint and became a Christian in 1994, and is now a Christian pastor), but my father was very absent in this period and my education and culture came from my mother and Methodist church crest of Brazil and Wesleyan Methodist.
Well, this characterized my life and lived it and learned behavior:
-Marriage is blessed by God.
-Living chastity is blessed by God. (Although it is dificilll hell).
-Virginity is also a blessing.
-Steal not from God.
-Lying is not of God.
But the theme you want to play is virginity and marriage!
So have learned at home and in church, never wanted to go to a brothel to start me, and look at that for two years I lived next to a "zone" called meretricious of the JUA, and sold very popsicles and pudding in that place, I saw many women and youth whoring tina 12 years, and many boys were sons of these ladies who worked there and played ball and studied together. But never got on the bandwagon to make "it" that everyone did, because the teachings of the church and my mother were always with me:

Train up a child in the way he should go, because even being old, not depart from it!

I dated many girls and even being a strong temptation, succumbed not to have sex outside of marriage. I exceeded a few times in my dating, but they never did something one day repent me, as easily today, not control, does not weigh the consequences when they least expect it and are stuck for life to a bond that if the expected time right, and God bless your family.
I was eight years old and single pastor kept my conduct, dated and not regret anything in my dating. Respect the girl and her parents was the agenda of my relationships.
I married 30 years old and married with no sexual experience, (Yeah I married "virgii"), my wife was a virgin and was very good, and is very good to know that I never had any sexual relationship with another person unless with my wife and now I can also say with great joy that never touched or kissed another woman other than my wife, I'm faithful, thank God!

Have fought to keep me in my youth chaste and faithful in my marriage was and is a wonderful adventure. Do not regret anything in this area, I'm not afraid of surprises on my door: This is your child! Only if by stoned thinking, there's no way not!
I'm not perfect, far from it, but my sins are great for me, but maybe for you are nothing, went through life unscathed as my Jesus and Joseph of Egypt, had nightmares and unfortunately still have them.
Masturbation, pornography, got to masturbate 4-5 times a day (Believe it or not I started masturbating at age 23, once thought to "feel" it was all, it gives garden), bought comics at newsstands and also BH the internet ... well, I was not perfect, but way to holiness under the blood of Jesus of Nazareth, who can sympathize with me, by the things he suffered suffered.
If you missed this area, do not despair, ask God for forgiveness stand up and move on, if you had sex with the girl, she got pregnant, if you love each other, let them marry and be happy, but if not love, not marry, do not ruin the lives of one another, God does not bless the lack of love and sincerity.
The fall of man is but the raise is God!
Prophet, Pastor Rogério Oliveira

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